What About Me?

What About Me? : Growing Up with a Developmentally Disabled Sibling

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How do families cope with the stressful aspects of raising a developmentally disabled child? There are over a million mentally impaired children in the United States, and another million children suffering from physical disorders or sensory handicaps. In What About Me?: Growing Up with a Developmentally Disabled Sibling, Dr. Siegel, a highly regarded developmental psychologist, and Dr. Silverstein, a respected pediatrician, compassionately address the issue of living with a neurologically impaired sibling. They offer an incisive guide to the psyche of siblings who must assume difficult tasks and burdens, and approach their subject from a variety of perspectives, including a poignant first-person account by Dr. Silverstein, himself the older brother of an autistic sibling; a fascinating view from Dr. Siegel based on clinical interviews with over 1000 families of different ethnic and social and educational backgrounds and their approaches to handicaps; a compelling review of research on family factors and adjustments of the nonimpaired siblings; an analysis of family coping and defenses patterned on the Adult Children of Alcoholics model; and a helpful chapter for adult siblings on the legal aspects of becoming one's "brother's keeper." The authors also describe an interesting and clinically useful series of prototypical "roles" adopted by siblings in coping with a disabled brother or sister: the Parentified Child, the Withdrawn Child, the Acting-Out Child, and the Superachieving Child. To depict the psychological dynamics within the family, this book features vignettes of everyday situations that have presented problems caused by the inevitable adjustments and conflicts of living with adevelopmentally disabled child. There is also a helpful appendix of exercises for individuals, discussion groups, and parents of disabled children that explore the experiences of trying to cope with a handicapped child. What About Me? is a tremendously affecting book for siblings
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Product details

  • Hardback | 245 pages
  • 146 x 212 x 34mm | 566.99g
  • Da Capo Press Inc
  • United Kingdom
  • English
  • 0306446502
  • 9780306446504

Table of contents

Introduction: Personal and Clinical Perspectives on Siblings of Developmentally Disabled Children and Adults; A Personal Story; What Research Tells Us about the Brothers and Sisters of Developmentally Disabled Children; A Family's Adjustment to a Developmentally Disabled Child; Cultural, Religious, and Educational Factors Influencing Family Adjustment; Coping and Defending: Applying the Adult-Children-of-Alcoholics Model; The Parentified Child; The Withdrawn Child; The Acting-Out Child; The Superachieving Child; Promoting a Healthy Family Life; Legal Aspects of Becoming Your Brother's Keeper; Afterword; Appendixes: Discussion-Group and Support-Croup Materials and Topics for Individual Consideration; For Further Reading; Index
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