They/Them/Their : A Guide to Nonbinary and Genderqueer Identities

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Chosen as one of The List's Hot 100 in 2019.

In this insightful and long-overdue book, Eris Young explores what it's like to live outside of the gender binary and how it can impact on one's relationships, sense of identity, use of language and more.

Drawing on the author's own experiences as a nonbinary person, as well as interviews and research, it shares common experiences and challenges faced by those who are nonbinary, and what friends, family and other cisgender people can do to support them. Breaking down misconceptions and providing definitions, the history of nonbinary identities and gender-neutral language, and information on healthcare, this much-needed guide is for anyone wanting to fully understand nonbinary and genderqueer identities.
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Product details

  • Paperback | 288 pages
  • 152 x 228 x 28mm | 340g
  • London, United Kingdom
  • English
  • 6 b/w illustrations
  • 1785924834
  • 9781785924835
  • 49,688

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Young gives readers a succinct tour through nonbinary and genderqueer experience, including the importance of community, coming out or remaining closeted, dating and relationships, gender affirmation surgeries and treatments, and legal struggles, and helpfully concludes each chapter with recommendations, exercises, or discussion questions. For those new to the topic, this well-organized guide will get the ball rolling. -- Publishers Weekly
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About Eris Young

Eris Young is a queer, nonbinary trans writer and editor from Santa Ana, California, who currently lives in Edinburgh, UK. They were chosen as one The List's Hot 100 in 2019.
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