The Orchid and the Dandelion

The Orchid and the Dandelion : Why Sensitive People Struggle and How All Can Thrive

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'A necessary and important book.' Philippa Perry, Sunday Times bestselling author of The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read

`The Orchid and the Dandelion is based on groundbreaking research that has the power to change the lives of countless children - and the adults who love them.' - Susan Cain, New York Times bestselling author of Quiet

Why do some people succeed and others struggle? Why are some people's lives filled with satisfaction and happiness and others with frustration and despair? Why do some people die young, while others live into healthy old age? Is it simply chance and luck, or are there early patterns of development revealing potentially determinative pathways into bounty or calamity?

In The Orchid and the Dandelion, Dr W. Thomas Boyce - one of the world's foremost researchers in the field of paediatric health - presents findings that children have two very different responses to their environments. While some children are like dandelions and can thrive in almost any environment, there are others who, like orchids, are much more reactive and susceptible to their surroundings. Now we finally have a scientific framework to understand people and how to address their unique needs to help them find their fullest potential.

This groundbreaking book draws on extensive research, examples and real stories that will re-frame how we think about orchid and dandelion children and the adults those children have become.
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Product details

  • Paperback | 304 pages
  • 152 x 233 x 23mm | 406g
  • Bluebird
  • London, United Kingdom
  • English
  • Air Iri OME
  • 1509805133
  • 9781509805136
  • 55,054

Table of contents

Section - i: Introductory Note by Robert Coles
Section - ii: Foreword by T. Berry Brazelton
Section - iii: Introduction

Chapter - 1: A Tale of Two Children
Chapter - 2: The Noise and the Music
Chapter - 3: Lemon Juice, Fire Alarms, and an Unanticipated Discovery
Chapter - 4: An Orchestration of Orchids and Dandelions
Chapter - 5: Where Do Orchids (and Dandelions) Come From?
Chapter - 6: No Two Children Are Raised in the Same Family
Chapter - 7: The Kindness and Cruelty of Children
Chapter - 8: Sowing and Tilling the Gardens of Childhood
Chapter - 9: The Arc of Life for Orchids and Dandelions
Chapter - 10: The Sins of the Fathers, the Means of Grace
Chapter - 11: Conclusion: Helping All Children Thrive

Section - iv: Coda: An Eden Rendered Whole, the Orchid and the Dandelion
Acknowledgements - v: Acknowledgements
Section - vi: Glossary
Section - vii: Notes
Index - viii: Index
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This is a necessary and important book. Philippa Perry Guardian
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A true gift to parents and teachers globally -- Elissa S. Epel, Ph.D., Department of Psychiatry, UCSF It's a must read for all parents, teachers, and psychologists! -- John M. Gottmann, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author of Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child A skilled pediatrician, a gifted scientist, and a lucid writer. He has a deep understanding of the "orchid child" and its underlying biology, and he has a compelling story to tell. There is an extensive audience of parents and teachers whose lives will be touched by this book. The well-being of their children and their students will reap enormous benefits from what Tom Boyce can teach us all about the valleys and the mountaintops of child development -- Jack P. Shonkoff M.D., Director, Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University; Professor of Pediatrics, Harvard Medical School and Boston Children's Hospital A book for parents bewildered by their impossibly spirited children, for teachers interested in understanding the range of children in their care, for psychologists wanting insights into individual differences, and for students of the human condition everywhere. . . The Orchid and the Dandelion absorbed me like a novel. -- Psychology Today This is the first parenting book I've read in a while that is based on common sense and science. It made me step back and look at each of my four children through different eyes. It is a powerful, groundbreaking read. And if you do have an orchid, it will help you parent them through even the hardest of times. -- Lorraine Candy, Sunday Times Magazine The Orchid and the Dandelion is based on groundbreaking research that has the power to change the lives of countless children-and the adults who love them. -- Susan Cain, New York Times bestselling author of Quiet This is a necessary and important book. -- Philippa Perry * Guardian *
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About W. Thomas Boyce

Dr W. Thomas Boyce is professor of Pediatrics and Psychiatry and heads the Division of Developmental Behavioral Pediatrics at the University of California, San Francisco. He is also co-director of the Child and Brain Development Program of the Canadian Institute for Advanced Research and a member of the Institute of Medicine of the National Academies. Dr Boyce's research addresses the interplay among neurobiological and psychosocial factors leading to differences in childhood health and disease. He frequently gives talks on his groundbreaking work. He is the parent of two wonderful adult children, one orchid and one dandelion. He is also an avid sailor who likes to tie sailing knots and untie scientific ones.
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