The Normal Chaos of Love

The Normal Chaos of Love

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This is a brilliant study of the nature of love in modern society. Ulrich Beck and Elisabeth Beck-Gernsheim argue that the nature of love is changing fundamentally, creating opportunities for democracy or chaos in personal life.
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Product details

  • Paperback | 240 pages
  • 152 x 226 x 22mm | 358.34g
  • Oxford, United Kingdom
  • English
  • 0745613829
  • 9780745613826
  • 388,887

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"This is a much-needed attempt to move beyond the accusations of personal failure that resound through what is called the "family values" debate. Trying to maintain close relationships in a modern individualized society, the authors show, is complicated by the gradual decline of the feudal relations between men and women that once structured family life at women's expense. Their depiction of this transformation is one in which we can all recognize our individual struggles, and yet also begin to connect our personal searches, failures and hopes to the larger forces they reflect." Myra Marx Ferree, University of Connecticut "Well argued, coherent and supported by evidence ... [A] sharp and thought-provoking book, which was a real pleasure to read." New Statesman and Society "Stimulating analysis." Work, Employment and Society
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About Elisabeth Beck-Gernsheim

Ulrich Beck is Professor of Sociology at the University of Munich and at the London School of Economics and Political Science.
Elizabeth Beck-Gernsheim is Professor of Sociology at the University of Erlangen.
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Back cover copy

Men and women are increasingly becoming the authors of their own styles of life. The nature of love is changing fundamentally in conjunction with transformations in sexual life and family forms. Love, as Beck and Beck-Gernsheim argue, has become an empty category, which lovers themselves must fill in relation to their own biographies and emotional lives. The consequences of this situation are manifold. On the one hand, there stands the possibility of creating forms of democracy in personal life which parallel those achieved in the public sphere; on the other, there is the potentiality for chaos.

Love, say the authors, becomes more important than ever before at the same time as it becomes more elusive. The struggle to harmonize family and career, love and marriage, "new" motherhood and fatherhood has today replaced "class" struggle. For better or for worse, individuals today who want to live together are becoming the legislators of their own ways of life, the judges of their own transgressions, the priests who absolve their owns sins and the therapists who loosen the bonds of their own past.

This superbly original book extends and deepens some of the themes introduced in Ulrich Beck's celebrated work Risk Society. Social life is becoming much more open than ever before; at the same time, the mixture of opportunity and risk thus created introduces new anxieties into the various spheres of social life.
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Table of contents

1. Love or Freedom.
2. From Love to Liaison.
3. Free Love, Free Divorce.
4. All For Love of a Child.
5. Eve's Late Apple.
6. Love, Our Secular Religion.
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