Imaginary Companions and the Children Who Create Them

Imaginary Companions and the Children Who Create Them

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At the same time, parents sometimes wonder if the imaginary companion might be a sign that something is wrong. Does having a pretend friend mean that the child is in emotional distress? That he or she has difficulty communicating with other children? In this fascinating book, Marjorie Taylor provides an informed look at current thinking about pretend friends, dispelling many myths about them. In the past a child with an imaginary companion might have been considered peculiar, shy, or even troubled, but according to Taylor the reality is much more positive--and interesting. Not only are imaginary companions surprisingly common, the children who have them tend to be less shy than other children. They also are better able to focus their attention and to see things from another person's perspective. In addition to describing imaginary companions and the reasons children create them, Taylor discusses other aspects of children's fantasy lives, such as their belief in Santa, their dreams, and their uncertainty about the reality of TV characters. Adults who remember their own childhood pretend friends will be interested in the chapter on the relationship between imaginary companions in childhood and adult forms of fantasy. Taylor also addresses practical concerns, providing many useful suggestions for parents. For example, she describes how children often express their own feelings by attributing them to their imaginary companion. If you have a child who creates imaginary creatures, or if you work with pre-schoolers, you will find this book very helpful in understanding the roles that imaginary companions play in children's emotional lives.show more

Product details

  • Hardback | 224 pages
  • 142.24 x 208.28 x 22.86mm | 362.87g
  • Oxford University Press Inc
  • New York, United States
  • English
  • 0195077040
  • 9780195077049

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Taylor sucessfully combines a balanced review of a century of research on the phenomenon with a sensitivity to some of those wider issues. Nature question about the nervous system - how to repair the damage inflicted by the ever more violent ways of peace and war and the depredations of age ... One is surprised that the need for such a work has not been recognised before. Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine, Vol 96show more

About Marjorie E. Taylor

Marjorie Taylor is Professor of Psychology at the University of Oregon. She lives in Eugene, Oregon.show more

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