The Disappearing Male

The Disappearing Male

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The Disappearing Male by Joan Lachkar, PhD, provides psychoanalytic/psychodynamic descriptions of eight different kinds of men who "disappear" from relationships seemingly without warning or explanation. This book can help to assist the women affected in recognizing the danger signs to prevent them from faltering in their relationship efforts. This book is significant to the awareness and self-esteem of women in relationships, the dating world, and to the therapists that treat them.
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Product details

  • Hardback | 204 pages
  • 152.4 x 228.6 x 22.86mm | 476.27g
  • Jason Aronson Inc. Publishers
  • Northvale NJ, United States
  • English
  • 0765709090
  • 9780765709097

Review quote

Joan Lachkar's magnificent new book discusses all nationalities, across which all men disappear, especially in Muslim and Japanese cultures where men's roles with women are restricted at all times. -- Lloyd deMause, editor of The Journal of Psychohistory Dr. Lachkar shows that Kipling's famous adage, 'East is East and West is West and never the twain shall meet' is crucially important in treating patients of non-Western backgrounds and especially cross-cultural couples. She shows that empathic understanding of Asian or Middle Eastern cultures is so important in successful outcomes of their treatments. -- Peter Berton, University of Southern California, Emeritus, and New Center for Psychoanalysis in Los Angeles, Emeritus Dr. Lachkar does it again! She addresses an issue hardly mentioned in the analytic literature, the plight of the disappearing male and the women who love and are traumatized by them. This book is unique and is suitable for all mental health professionals, including the most seasoned. The concept of 'disappearing' tackles the difficult terrain of dissociation where one can be physically present but not emotionally there, creating confusing, frustrating, and upsetting moments of interaction. This book contains the road maps to engage those who are disengaged. -- Nancy Kobrin, author of Banality of Suicide
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About Joan Lachkar

Joan Lachkar, Ph.D., is a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice in Sherman Oaks, California. She is an affiliate member of the New Center for Psychoanalysis, and the author of The Narcissistic/Borderline Couple: Psychoanalytic Perspective on Marital Treatment; The Many Faces of Abuse: Treating the Emotional Abuse of High-Functioning Women; The V-Spot; How to Talk to a Narcissist; and How to Talk to a Borderline. Dr. Lachkar is also a psychohistorian, and has published numerous articles on marital and political conflict in the Journal of Psychohistory, Frontpage, and Family Security Matters. Publications include The Psychopathology of Terrorism, a paper for the Rand Corporation.
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Table of contents




Chapter 1 Overview of The Disappearing Male

Chapter 2 Theoretical Framework

Chapter 3 The Disappearing Narcissist

Chapter 4 The Disappearing Borderline

Chapter 5 The Disappearing Schizoid

Chapter 6 The Disappearing Obsessive Compulsive

Chapter 7 The Disappearing Passive Aggressive

Chapter 8 The Disappearing Depressive

Chapter 9 The Disappearing Cross-Cultural Man

Chapter 10 The Disappearing Woman

Chapter 11 Treatment Techniques, Approaches

Epilogue: Closing Thoughts




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