• Masterminds & Wingmen: Helping Our Boys Cope with Schoolyard Power, Locker-Room Tests, Girlfriends, and the New Rules of Boy World

    Masterminds & Wingmen: Helping Our Boys Cope with Schoolyard Power, Locker-Room Tests, Girlfriends, and the New Rules of Boy World (Paperback) By (author) Rosalind Wiseman

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    DescriptionBooks for a Better Life Award Winner Here is a landmark book that reveals the way boys think and that shows parents, educators and coaches how to reach out and help boys overcome their most common yet difficult challenges -- by the bestselling author who changed our conception of adolescent girls. Do you constantly struggle to pull information from your son, student, or athlete, only to encounter mumbling or evasive assurances such as "It's nothing" or "I'm good?" Do you sense that the boy you care about is being bullied, but that he'll do anything to""avoid your "help?" Have you repeatedly reminded him that schoolwork and chores come before video games only to spy him reaching for the controller as soon as you leave the room? Have you watched with frustration as your boy flounders with girls? Welcome to Boy World. It's a place where asking for help or showing emotional pain often feels impossible. Where sports and video games can mean everything, but working hard in school frequently earns ridicule from "the guys" even as they ask to copy assignments. Where "masterminds" dominate and friends ruthlessly insult each other but can never object when someone steps over the line. Where hiding problems from adults is the ironclad rule because their involvement only makes situations worse. Boy world is governed by social hierarchies and a powerful set of unwritten rules that have huge implications for your boy's relationships, his interactions with you, and the man he'll become. If you want what's""best for him, you need to know what these rules are and how to work with them effectively. What you'll find in "Masterminds and Wingmen "is critically important for every parent - or "anyone "who cares about boys - to know. Collaborating with a large team of middle- and high-school-age editors, Rosalind Wiseman has created an unprecedented guide to the life your boy is "actually" experiencing - his on-the-ground reality. Not only does Wiseman challenge you to examine your assumptions, she offers innovative coping strategies aimed at helping your boy develop a positive, authentic, and strong sense of self. "From the Hardcover edition."


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    Title
    Masterminds & Wingmen
    Subtitle
    Helping Our Boys Cope with Schoolyard Power, Locker-Room Tests, Girlfriends, and the New Rules of Boy World
    Authors and contributors
    By (author) Rosalind Wiseman
    Physical properties
    Format: Paperback
    Number of pages: 377
    Width: 132 mm
    Height: 200 mm
    Thickness: 16 mm
    Weight: 280 g
    Language
    English
    ISBN
    ISBN 13: 9780307986689
    ISBN 10: 0307986683
    Classifications

    Warengruppen-Systematik des deutschen Buchhandels: 27230
    B&T Merchandise Category: GEN
    B&T Book Type: NF
    B&T Modifier: Region of Publication: 01
    BIC E4L: CHI
    Nielsen BookScan Product Class 3: T9.3
    B&T Modifier: Academic Level: 05
    Ingram Subject Code: CF
    Ingram Theme: TOPC/FAMILY
    Libri: I-CF
    BIC subject category V2: WSD, VFXC1
    BISAC Merchandising Theme: TP034
    Ingram Theme: TOPC/ADOLES
    DC21: 649.132
    Ingram Theme: SEXL/MASC
    B&T Approval Code: A11441500
    BISAC V2.8: FAM043000, FAM034000
    B&T General Subject: 200
    B&T Modifier: Subject Development: 09
    BIC subject category V2: JNH
    BISAC V2.8: EDU006000
    LC subject heading: ,
    B&T Approval Code: A97242400
    BISAC V2.8: PSY004000, EDU009000
    DC22: 649.132, 305.235/1
    LC subject heading:
    BISAC V2.8: SPO061000
    Thema V1.0: VFX, JN, JKSN2
    LC classification: HQ797 .W57 2014
    Thema V1.0: SCG, VFXC1
    Edition statement
    Reprint
    Illustrations note
    black & white illustrations, black & white line drawings
    Publisher
    HARMONY
    Imprint name
    HARMONY
    Publication date
    29 July 2014
    Publication City/Country
    New York
    Author Information
    ROSALIND WISEMAN is an internationally recognized expert on children, parenting, bullying, social justice, and ethical leadership, and the "New York Times" bestselling author "of Queen Bees and Wannabes" and "Queen Bee Moms and Kingpin Dads."
    Review quote
    "Rosalind Wiseman, who so insightfully explained the world of girls in "Queen Bees and Wannabes," has done it again. This book is a powerful exploration of the inner life of boys, which is far more complex than many parents and educators may realize. Wiseman reveals the unwritten rules boys must both abide by and try to overcome, and she helps parents understand boys' reactions, as well as their own. This is an essential guide - not just for parents but anyone who wants to better understand their own childhood and its impact." --Anderson Cooper "This book is a gem. Rosalind Wiseman offers readers deep, nuanced, up-to-the-minute insight into today's boy. She explains how and why boys, in so many areas, make it easy for parents and educators to miss out on their suffering "and" their strength. Most important, she shows how to reach out and lift boys up without getting on their nerves." --Wendy Mogel, PhD, author of the "New York Times" bestseller "The Blessing of a Skinned Knee" "Rosalind Wiseman, the well-known 'girl expert, ' has a real feel for the inner life of boys, and for the way they interact with their parents. Her new book, "Masterminds and Wingmen," contains some of the best advice for communicating with boys that I've ever read: wise, clear and tough. The brilliant chapter on why boys lies to their parents is alone worth the price of the book." --Michael Thompson, coauthor of the "New York Times" bestseller "Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys" "Trying to communicate with boys - teenage boys especially -- can sometimes feel like cracking the world's most complicated secret code. What makes "Masterminds and Wingmen" so remarkable is how thoroughly it decrypts boy-world language. It allows us to really connect with boys. If you want to understand what's in your son's head, read this book!" --Michael Gurian, "New York Times" bestselling author of "The Wonder of Boys" "Rosalind Wiseman is perhaps America's foremost guide through the complex social hierarchies and cruel logics that govern adolescents' lives. And "Masterminds and Wingmen" maps the foreign territory of boys' social and interior emotional lives as deftly and compassionately as Wiseman's earlier book on girls. With clear analysis and down-to-earth practical advice, this book will guide many "many" conversations between parents and their sons." --Michael Kimmel, author of "Guyland: The Perilous World Where Boys Become Men" "Rosalind Wiseman brings a distinctive perspective and voice to whatever issue she takes up. She did it in "Queen Bees and Wannabes." Now she's done it again, revealing the inner workings of 'Boy World.' I found the book insightful and useful, as both a father to sons and as a professional working with violent youth who must deal with the most serious life issues facing other people's sons." --James Garbarino, PhD, author of "Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can""Save Them" " " "Don't even try parenting, teaching or coaching a boy without reading Wiseman's book -- a field manual that you'll absolutely need if you wish to enter the strange and wondrous world of guys." --Richard Whitmire, author of "Why Boys Fail: Saving Our Sons from an Educational System That's Leaving Them Behind" " " "The world bombards boys with confusing and destructive messages - the net result is the creation of characters instead of young men with character. "Masterminds and""Wingmen" will help parents, teachers, and coaches understand young boys and make a difference in their lives. An intriguing read." --Dr. Kevin Leman, author of "Have a New Kid by Friday" "From the Hardcover edition."