How to Know When Your Relationship is Over: And How to Change it When it's Not

How to Know When Your Relationship is Over: And How to Change it When it's Not


By (author) Chuck Spezzano

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  • Publisher: Balloon View Ltd
  • Format: Paperback | 134 pages
  • Dimensions: 118mm x 188mm x 14mm | 140g
  • Publication date: 1 August 2013
  • Publication City/Country: Newchurch
  • ISBN 10: 1907798331
  • ISBN 13: 9781907798337
  • Sales rank: 2,006,979

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Relationships are central to all our success and all our problems. Every relationship is worth fighting for rather than fighting in and every upset in a relationship tells us what we are called to heal. When we heal to the point where we learn the lesson then our partner changes. When we have moved closer to our partner then our judgment on them and our hidden self-judgment, there is a renaissance. Chuck Spezzano is world-renowned for his expertise in the field of relationships. This book is a culmination of lessons learned by Chuck over close to four decades spent helping people with their relationships and their problems.

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Author information

Chuck Spezzano, Ph. D., and his wife Lency Spezzano, M.S., are the founders of the Psychology of Vision, a transpersonal model of healing that employs cutting edge psychological tools and methodology, and wields the miracle power of grace. The Psychology of Vision centres around three core elements: relationships, leadership (answering the calls for help) and nondenominational spiritual development. Chuck has authored 38 books (3 of them with Lency), and there are 50 certified Psychology of Vision Trainers who teach seminars worldwide. Chuck has travelled internationally for over 40 years, leading cutting edge healing seminars and researching the psychological and spiritual Steps to Oneness. He is an adept at subconscious, unconscious and spiritual work, and is a long time student of A Course in Miracles. He resides on the windward side of the island of Oahu with Lency. For more information about Chuck and Lency and the Psychology of Vision visit or

Table of contents

Part I: HOW TO KNOW WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER 'How do I know my relationship is over?' Criteria for Your Answer What Is Possible for You When is Your Relationship Over? If Things Get Ugly Acceptance Asking for a Sign Transforming Relationships The Purpose of Relationships The Ego Ego Needs or Giving The Example of Sex Gifts Toxic Relationships - the Big Question Abusive Partners Three Crucial Situations The First Situation - The Shadow Healing Shadows Integration Initiation Forgiveness The Second Situation - Healing Power Struggle The Bridge of Light Method Balance Through Equality The Third Situation - Healing the Dead Zone Sacrifice Sacrifice and Roles The Oedipal Conspiracy Step The Rock-Swamp Step The Competition Step Fear of the Next Step Misery Three Exercises to Heal Misery The Method to Bring Your Answer Part II: WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS NOT OVER Changing the Relationship Spiritual Help Relationship Functions Principles for Healing - It's Your Choice Awareness of What You Are Doing Beyond Good Guy - Bad Guy Stories Busting Yourself Healing Competition Restoring Bonding Worst Case Scenario Partner Feeling Your Feelings Letting Go Forms of Letting Go 1. Feeling the Need 2. Forgiveness as a Way to Let Go 3. Putting it in God's Hands Making it Better as the Independent Partner Letting Go to Free the Present Examining Your Stories Another Way to Discover Dark Stories The Key to Your Freedom Birthing Exercise When Your Relationship Has Become A Conspiracy The Root of Your Relationship Conspiracy God or the Ego What Conspiracies Hide When Your Partner Has Become Your Shadow Ancestral Healing Other Lifetimes Your Partner as Your Mirror Part I - Self-Concepts Part II - Past Life Self-Concepts Relationship Centring A Shortcut to Partnership Embracing the Feminine Levels and Stages A Quick Way to Heal the Feminine Steps to the Feminine The Needs Stage Healing Exercise The Heartbreak Stage Healing Exercise The Guilt and Sacrifice Stage Healing Exercise Redeeming the Untrue Feminine to Save the Untrue Masculine Independence - The Expectations and Holding On Stage Healing Exercise Independence - The Control Stage Healing Exercise Independence - The Dead Zone Stage Healing Exercise The End is the Beginning