Exit: The Endings That Set Us Free

Exit: The Endings That Set Us Free


By (author) Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot

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  • Publisher: Sarah Crichton Books
  • Format: Paperback | 259 pages
  • Dimensions: 146mm x 220mm x 20mm | 320g
  • Publication date: 6 November 2013
  • ISBN 10: 0374533903
  • ISBN 13: 9780374533908
  • Edition statement: Reprint
  • Sales rank: 808,597

Product description

The wisdom of saying goodbye In this wise and provocative book, the renowned sociologist Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot trains her lens on the myriad exits we make in our lives: exits big and small, extraordinary and ordinary, quick and protracted, painful and liberating. Exits are ubiquitous. Part of the historical narrative of our country, they mark the physical landscapes we inhabit; they're braided into the arc of our individual development, laced into our intergenerational relationships, shaped by economic crisis, global mobility, and technological innovations. But we tend to ignore them, often seeing them as signs of failure. For two years Lawrence-Lightfoot traveled around the country listening to people tell their stories of leaving, witnessing rituals of goodbye, and producing the penetrating portraits that have become her signature. A gay man who finds home and wholeness after coming out of the closet; a sixteen-year-old-boy forced to leave Iran in the midst of a violent civil war; a Catholic priest who leaves the church; an anthropologist who carefully stages her departure from the field after years of research; and many more. Lawrence-Lightfoot shares their stories with sympathy and insight, finding the universal patterns that reframe our exit narratives. "Exit" finds wisdom in the possibility of moving on. It marks the start of a new conversation: a chance to discover how to make our exits with dignity and grace.

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Author information

Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot, a MacArthur prize-winning sociologist, is the Emily Hargroves Fisher Professor of Education at Harvard University. She is the author of ten books, including "The Third Chapter," "Respect," "The Essential Conversation," and "Balm in Gilead," which won the 1988 Christopher Award for "literary merit and humanitarian achievement." She is the recipient of twenty-eight honorary degrees and is the first African American woman in Harvard's history to have an endowed professorship named in her honor.

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"With her trademark grace and insight, Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot has added exit lines to her repertoire. in "Exit," she is a superb storyteller and a wise guide to the inevitable farewells that punctuate our lives and often set us free."--Ellen Goodman, author of "Paper Trail: Common Sense in Uncommon Times" "In searching for the grace and courage of exits at every stage in the life cycle, Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot offers insights into the deeper continuities that exits can affirm, binding us together and emphasizing the meaning in the composition of our lives. She argues the need for our culture to evolve rituals that express these enduring values in facing the unknown."--Mary Catherine Bateson, author of "Composing a Further Life: The Age of Active Wisdom""" "The resonant testimonials Lawrence-Lightfoot spotlights nicely dovetail into a conclusion befitting her research into the inevitability of departures and our individual choice to accept or bemoan them. A finely researched examination that sheds a new light on the catharsis of goodbye."--"Kirkus Reviews" "Lawrence-Lightfoot has penned an examination of how people exit careers, countries, and even life. Believing that the small departures we make daily prepare us for the large ones--emigration, divorce, death--the author argues that each is a drama of ambivalence, decision-making, and epiphany . . ."--"Publishers Weekly "